fire emblem

xenoblade chronicles (i've played 1 and 3. i keep meaning to get back to xbc2 but haven't yet. i've watched the cutscenes tho)

persona

sonic the hedgehog

trigun

kingdom hearts

tales of berseria/tales of zestiria

i'm rly unlikely to follow back someone under 18. even if i do we're not likely to become anything beyond like acquaintances bc i'm an adult. people under 18 can still follow me, i try to maintain a sfw presence here, but yeah

remember to softblock when breaking a mutual. like u don't need to tell me ur softblocking or anything but don't just unfollow me then leave me to realize months later "oh shit that mutual unfollowed me"

if we aren't friends don't joke-insult me. it's not really a joke when i don't know who you are

honestly don't be overly-familiar with me in general. just because i'm polite and friendly doesn't mean you know me well enough to make weird jokes at me. i've had people i barely knew joke about wanting to kill me before multiple times and it's never funny

and on the topic of being overly-familiar, if we aren't friends, please don't come to me to vent. ESPECIALLY without asking me if i'm okay with that first. you don't know me well enough to know my boundaries with that

unless we're friends (as in we've had a couple private convos and/or you follow at least one of my locked accounts), don't use gendered terms/titles for me. this is in bold because it's an issue that's come up a few times before and i need people to know that it is misgendering me to do that.

anyone can use any pronouns for me at any time tho

HOWEVER absolutely nobody can ever call me "princess". prince is fine, other equivalent terms are fine, i just have a specific issue w/ "princess". it's not gender-related, it bothers me for other reasons

if you're talking about me, for whatever reason, in a language that lacks gender neutral terminology, i'd prefer traditionally "masculine" terms

as far as my pronouns go, i kind of like when people switch it up and not stick to the same pronouns all the time. like, if you call me he in one conversation, then call me she or they in the next. but i'm not gonna be like "hey you HAVE to do this/you HAVE to keep track of this" idc That much.

i will side-eye you if you only ever use she/her for me tho because it is pretty indicative of how you see me and i do consider that misgendering me

gender is complex, i'm not getting into the intricacies of my gender here but i resent when people try to tell me i'm "basically a girl" or "basically a boy" or group me in fully w/ either category so. don't do that. i am trans masc and i call myself a guy or mlm a lot but there's more to it than that and other people don't usually Get It

anything pedophilic or incestuous (and yes it counts as incest if they're adopted and not blood-related). special "shout out" to alfonse/veronica, that ship in particular DO NOT EVER bring up to me

my distaste for alfonse/veronica applies to lif/thrasir, too. alfonse met veronica when he was in his 20s and she was like 13, it's weird even if they're both adults like lif and thrasir

another special shout out to any ships involving sharena and minors. like twice now she's been specifically confirmed to be an adult woman don't do this to her

don't talk about byleth/student ships to me. pre- OR post-timeskip

large age gaps tend to make me uncomfy also tho that's not a 100% of the time thing, it's like. depending on how old the characters are now and how old they were when they met

for the rest of this list... i have nothing against you if you ship them but i... do not (for hc reasons, sexuality mostly)

these are the "i won't block you if you bring them up to me but i'd prefer if you didn't" ships

alfonse/fjorm

sharena/bruno

i'm kind of particular about how i ship lif/kiran and lif/bruno. i usually only like it if it's an au where kiran or bruno are Also Dead and have hel forms, or if it's one-sided angst on lif's part because he used to care about these people so much and those feelings kind of linger even tho lif knows that these aren't the same people he knew. anything else i find it a little weird and/or sad

this isn't a ship but i have nowhere else to put it so i'm sticking it here, i'm also not fond of people acting as though lif and thrasir are Basically The Same as canon alfonse and veronica. they've been through enough different experiences that they're different people at this point. not to mention both lif and thrasir say not to call them by their old names. like intsys is weird on this point and has them refer to each other by their old names sometimes, but idk it comes off to me as deadnaming when they both have lines when summoned that clarify they view themselves as separate people from who they used to be including using new names

and before anyone asks "isn't this like the bruno and zacharias situation" it's not because bruno never said he didn't like being called zacharias and he's never protested to people calling him that. and in book 2 he even still used the name zacharias when talking to hrid, so i just think he probably doesn't mind either name being used for him

private twitter. mutuals only, though exclusive (18+, not bc i post nsfw stuff there but bc it's heavy and i'm not cool letting minors see that stuff). it also has its own carrd which is the link in the bio that people should read before following

nsfw twitter. also 18+ but this time because it is nsfw. it's locked so i can and do enforce that. it's... also somewhat exclusive, but that's a blanket statement for all my locked alts tbh

quiet account. not a vent, not a nsfw account. basically any mutuals can request it. i just go there when i want a quieter tl, or sometimes to post links that i just don't want on main bc i don't want them getting out (mostly whiteboard links)

shitpostcity1, account run w/ a couple friends of mine that's mostly just ridiculous bullshit from our group chats

"professional" twitter. used to be my account for writing-related stuff. i guess i'd still use it for that when i do original writing again. for now, though, this is mostly used for stream-related stuff (you should definitely follow this account)

out of context across universes. account run with bren for his rp group, across universes. just funny out of context screenshots

i have so many fucking accounts. christ

fanfic writers discord. it's. it's for fanfic writers! yeah. 16+ only

oc server. these are really self-explanatory

the senver. THIS ONE ISN'T, THO! this one is my streamer server, mostly for announcements about my streams, etc. generally better for keeping track of when i stream than my stream twitter since i tend to make a lot of last minute plans i don't announce until i'm live

across universes rp group. not mine technically but i am a mod there. it's actually my friend bren's group which asks the bold question "what if a group chat fic was both multifandom and an rp group"

i thought i had more public servers but i'm blanking hard rn. i'll come back to this later

also not linking it but i have a little server for my friends/mutuals. feel free to ask to join if you want